| 
							
                            Faced with his wife’s 
                            desire to become a 
                            mother, filmmaker 
                            Stephane Goldsand goes 
                            on a quest to find out 
                            how people decide to 
                            have kids and identify 
                            the sources of his own 
                            hesitation. What 
                            emerges is an intimate 
                            story, peppered with 
                            humor and poignancy, 
                            where memories and 
                            present moments 
                            converge in an effort 
                            to redefine a couple’s 
                            future. Leap Before 
                            You Look is a 
                            first-person 
                            documentary short that 
                            combines various 
                            storytelling styles, 
                            including vérité, 
                            interviews, narration, 
                            animations and family 
                            archival material. 
                             
							  
							
                            Review by F2B's 
                            Patrick Houser: 
                            
                            
                            "This first 
                            documentary by NYC 
                            based filmmaker 
                            Stephane Goldsand, 
                            represents what could 
                            be called … “Where the 
                            rubber meets the 
                            road”… regarding 
                            contemporary 
                            parenthood.   
                            
                            
                            Utilising alluring 
                            multi-media techniques 
                            Mr. Goldsand has 
                            committed to telling a 
                            story, an intimate 
                            personal story, which 
                            very few men would 
                            dare. Throughout this 
                            22 minute sojourn the 
                            viewer is invited into 
                            Goldsand’s inner 
                            sanctum, as well as 
                            his family of origin, 
                            in order to explore 
                            his ambivalence (dread 
                            may be more accurate) 
                            at the prospect of 
                            becoming a father. We 
                            also engage with his 
                            beloved and charming 
                            wife Cristina, ripe 
                            for motherhood within 
                            the evolution of their 
                            long-term 
                            relationship.   
                            
                            
                            Welcome to a creative, 
                            provocative, and 
                            heart-warming piece of 
                            filmic excellence from 
                            a man who is destined 
                            to be a successful 
                            filmmaker; as well as 
                            a fantastic father." 
                            
                              
                            
                            
                            Be on the lookout for 
                            this important 
                            documentary at film 
                            festivals world-wide.
                             
                            
                            
                            For more please visit
                            
                            
                            www.leapbeforeyoulook.com   
 
							  
							
                            The Fathers-To-Be 
                            programmes are a 
                            r-evolution in 
                            antenatal education 
                            for fathers, mothers and birthcare 
                            professionals. It 
                            brings together 
                            leading edge research 
                            about the nature of 
                            the 
                            father/mother/child 
                            relationship and the 
                            power of intention. 
							
                              
							
                            We recognise that 
                            'birth matters' for 
                            the whole family. Most 
                            women, when properly 
                            prepared and 
                            supported, can give 
                            birth naturally and 
                            without intervention. 
                            Fathers can make an 
                            important contribution 
                            to this natural 
                            process. 
							
                              
							
                            Today nearly all 
                            fathers are at the 
                            birth of their 
                            children. Men have an 
                            instinctive ability 
                            for fathering which 
                            can easily be 
                            awakened. Additional 
                            skills, like 
                            maintaining a calm and 
                            useful presence at the 
                            birth, and how to best 
                            support a mother, can 
                            be learned.
							   
							
                            Through a combination 
                            of discussion, 
                            practice and 
                            inspiration 
                            Fathers-To-Be creates 
                            a profoundly useful 
                            environment for 
                            exploring creative 
                            parenting before, 
                            during and after 
                            birth. 
							
                              
							
                            Direct benefits are 
                            improved family 
                            bonding, improved 
                            relationships, 
                            increased longevity 
                            and security for the 
                            family, decreased 
                            stress and more 
                            enjoyment for mothers, 
                            fathers, children and 
                            professionals. 
							
                              
							
                            It has been found that 
                            activating the 'fight 
                            or flight' response in 
                            people present at a 
                            birth can affect a 
                            mother's ability to 
                            birth her baby. In our 
                            classes fathers learn 
                            to detect this 
                            mechanism and how to 
                            manage this response 
                            in a creative and 
                            useful way. 
							
                              
							
                            We find that when 
                            fathers come together 
                            they enjoy opening up 
                            and sharing their 
                            experiences. They 
                            revel in hearing from 
                            other fathers about 
                            some of the same joys, 
                            questions and fears 
                            they also have. 
							  
 
							  
							
                            
                            "I have been looking 
                            for something like 
                            this for most of these 
                            last 8 months."  
							
                             Mike A., recent F2B 
                            participant 
				
					|  | 
						
							| 
								
									| 
 
									
                                                
                                    We also 
                                    consult with 
                                    midwifery 
                                    schools, 
                                    hospitals, 
                                    yoga and 
                                    antenatal 
                                    organisations 
                                    and other 
                                    professionals                                    
									                         providing care 
                                    for families 
                                    during the 
                                    'primary 
                                    time'. We have 
                                    various 
                                    formats 
                                    including
                                     
									                                 lectures, 
                                    workshops, 
                                    study days, CPD, CEUs, 
                                    film 
                                    screenings and 
                                    more,  
									                                       
                                    to enhance 
                                    family 
                                    services 
                                    regarding 
                                    fathers and 
                                    the family. 
                                     
									  
 
									
                                                                               
                                    Patrick Houser 
                                    has been 
                                    chosen as a 
                                    Greatvine 
                                    expert and is 
                                    available 
									
                                    for 
                                    telephone 
                                    consultations/coaching 
                                    for fathers, 
									
                                    mothers
                                    or 
                                    professionals 
                                    with: 
									  
									
									
									  
									  
										
											
												
													
														
														
														
														
														www.Greatvine.com  offers live, individual advice direct from the country's best experts 
														
														
														from the comfort of your home or office phone.
														Greatvine hand picks  
														
														every expert so you receive information you can trust. 
									
									
									
                                    www.greatvine.com/patrick_houser 
									   
 
			
			
            © 
			
            Fathers-To-Be / Creative Life Systems 
            Ltd. UK / Creative Life Systems USA 
			
            UK 44(0)1892 890614  /  USA 
            512 394 8579 
			
			
            
            info@fatherstobe.org.   
            /   
			
            support@creativelifesystem.com  
 |  
									|  |  |  |  |  |